One of my old coworkers just had her twin boys today. I don't see her a lot but we are friends on facebook and I noticed on there that she was being induced this morning at 39 weeks. She was very thoughtful when Lola passed last year and actually e-mailed me to express her condolences.
I also found out yesterday that someone I know had twin boys recently - this person has another child that he does not take care of, and he gets two more.
I am happy for my friend, and of course happy the other guy's babies are okay, but I just wonder "why me" sometimes. I have now heard of three past acquaintances that have had twins since Lola passed away. I don't know what I'll do if someone close to me has them. It is just so hard to think what life would have been like with both Lola and Bella here.